Redemptive Gifts
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Teaching adapted from the work of Arthur Burk and Pastors Paul and Cheryl Black

All gifts

Giver

Provides, protects and builds for the long term.

The Giver gift is about building for the future. People with this gift think in generations, look after the people closest to them and use resources wisely. They adapt to almost any setting, yet keep a firm set of values underneath.

A Giver can look like a chameleon, fitting in almost anywhere and wary of absolutes, yet they usually keep their own values intact. The flexibility is on the surface, and the firm core is underneath.

How it shows up

  • Thinks ahead to provide for family and for those who come after.
  • Gives carefully and wisely, rather than on impulse.
  • Adapts to different people and settings while holding on to their own core values.
  • Likes to keep options open and is wary of rigid either-or thinking.
  • Is private and independent, and picky about who gets close.
  • Likes a good deal, and often feels safer with money set aside.
  • Notices hidden motives and dislikes being manipulated or kept in the dark.
  • Is creative with ideas and business, and good at helping new things grow.

At its best

  • Generous in a balanced way, treating resources as something to pass on.
  • Builds, plans and provides, and takes sensible risks with confidence.
  • Nurturing and family-minded, creating a warm, home-like atmosphere around people.
  • Wise with money and quick to spot a scheme.
  • Stands against excess and waste while helping new ideas and people grow.

Things to watch for

  • Being so independent that they do not ask for help or let others in.
  • Leaning on money or possessions for security more than on people.
  • Being very frugal, even with those closest to them.
  • Trying to steer people or outcomes because of fear of the unknown.
  • Looking settled and capable on the outside while carrying private worries within.
  • Avoiding closure or old problems, and staying hard to pin down.

Growing into this gift

Growth for a Giver means trusting more and controlling less. That can look like letting people in, asking for help, giving time and attention as well as money, and acting out of confidence rather than fear of risk. A mature Giver gives freely, builds for the long run and stays open while keeping their steady core.

Where this gift is tested

Independence. When the gift is under strain, the Giver feels the pull to stand alone and handle everything privately, even when a friend or a bit of help would make life better.

The story it can tell itself

'I matter when other people need me and I can provide for them.' It can turn giving into a way of keeping control, and make receiving feel uncomfortable.

A Bible example

Job (Job 16:20-21)

Known for looking after his family and others, he held to his core values and his trust even when friends turned on him and nearly everything was lost. Abraham, Jacob and Matthew are also named as examples in the teaching.

Background

Guiding principle
Stewardship: looking after what has been entrusted and passing it on.
Birthright
To release life-giving blessings from one generation to the next.
Creation day
Day five: birds and fish were made and told to multiply. What the Giver starts tends to multiply.
Tabernacle item
The altar of incense, where worship and prayer rose like a fragrance. It stands for gratitude and heartfelt relationship.

Sources

  • Redemptive Gifts Outline, Pastors Paul and Cheryl Black
  • The 7 Spiritual Redemptive Gifts, jeffklaus.weebly.com, describing Arthur Burk's teaching
  • Seven Redemptive Gifts of Individuals, Author not named on the document

This teaching draws on the work of the credited authors.

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